消受

消受	xiāo shòu	to bear / to enjoy (usually in negative combination, meaning unable to enjoy)
消	xiāo	to diminish; to subside / to consume; to reduce / to idle away (the time) / (after 不 or 只 or 何 etc) to need; to require; to take
受	shòu	to receive / to accept / to suffer / subjected to / to bear / to stand / pleasant / (passive marker) / (LGBT) bottom