消磨

消磨	xiāo mó	to wear down / to sap / to whittle away / to while away / to idle away
消	xiāo	to diminish; to subside / to consume; to reduce / to idle away (the time) / (after 不 or 只 or 何 etc) to need; to require; to take
磨	mó	to rub / to grind / to polish / to sharpen / to wear down / to die out / to waste time / to pester / to insist
磨	mò	grindstone / to grind / to turn round